CLARIFICATION

Something was brought to my attention today by a dear friend and I thought I should clarify my post, or posts... or heck, the whole darn blog....

Tessi isn't "sick".  I think when I am in a bad place I come here and my posts are probably very negative.  I constantly question her still being here and if I am making the right decisions.  I think it is more a look into the future of what I will face.  It's not a right now sort of thing.

I've read a lot about can or will happen as things progress with her fibrosarcoma.  With the exception of some discomfort that I think we're doing a good job of managing, she is doing very well.

Tessi doesn't miss a meal.  She is not vomiting.  Her tumor isn't bleeding.  There is no sign of infection.  I know eventually those things will play a major role in what's to come but right now, my girl isn't sick.  Oddly, she's probably healthier than she's been in a while.  Might be too much information but Tessi has always had a weak stomach and quite often loose stool that we could never quite correct.  We used Flagyl, over the counter remedies, changed her food... I even used natural clay (which was helping a bit before I found out she had cancer)  All of a sudden the last couple weeks her stool has been solid.  Best it's been in a long time.  (Too much information, I'm sure, for some)  I've read CBD oil can settle your stomach.  I wonder if that's what helping.  I'm really not sure.

What I'm saying is....  I know it's not her time to go yet.  My heart just dreads that day.  I think my writings make it appear it's already that time.  It's not.  She's still first in line for dinner and comes running when I open the drawer her favorite feather toy is in.  My version and her's of what a "bad day" is most likely is very different.  She lives in the moment.  I am trying to get better at doing the same.

Hugs and Purrs,

Arline

TESSI'S TINCTURES

Good morning, followers.

Yesterday I told you about our experience, granted early stage, with CBD Oil.  Today I'll share that we are also using Life GOLD.   No, I've not been paid to review this but I did want to share that it is another tool in our Tessi Toolbox.  It was recommended to me by a few different people and after reading about it, it was another "do no harm" sort of thing, that at this point I figured, "What have we got to lose?"  

It is a herbal remedy for immune system support for pets with cancer.  While we aren't going through chemo or radiation and have no need to rid our system of those toxins, she can certainly use all the immune system support she can get at this point.  

Do I think it will cure her?  Absolutely not!  My goal here is to keep her comfortable, happy and able to enjoy what days she has left here with us.

There are a lot of crazy, scary things out there on the world wide web.  Make sure to do your research.  Ask questions.  Ask friends.  Ask your vet.

Here are some links I found helpful in my searches.

CBD OIL REVIEWS

CAT MAMAS

PALLIATIVE OPTIONS IN CANCER CARE

PET WELLBEING

NATURAL CAT CARE BLOG

QUALITY OF LIFE SCORECARD

That's all for today, folks.  At least for now....

We're going back to watching the birds and the butterflies....

Hugs and Purrs,

Arline & Tessi

ALTERNATIVE TREATMENTS

I am no doctor.  I don't pretend to be one.  I don't even play one on television.  What I'm about to write and explain is just my way of dealing with what is going on and not necessarily a recommendation to anyone else in our situation.

I've been reading everything I can find... EVERYTHING about oral fibrosarcoma.  There is not a lot out there, sadly.  There's more for injection site fibrosarcoma but not for oral cases.  I have read mostly that cats do not handle the reconstruction well, which I've already written about.  It reaffirms my believe that it is unfair of me to put her through something like that.  Especially considering it's her upper jaw.

Most of what I find explains antibiotics when infection starts, prednisone to lessen the swelling and while I cannot recall the name right at this moment there is a Chinese medicine, used for battle wounds during the Vietnam War (and interesting side tidbit of information I learned) that can help control bleeding.  Thankfully, we have not gotten to the point where we need any of those three things.

Prednisone definitely has it's place and I'm not knocking it when used for the right reasons.  My reservations though is that it brings down immunity.  Her ability to fight things is obviously already compromised or we wouldn't be where we are today.  Tessi has always had a weak immune system and is easily stressed.  I can only see steroids helping her tumor to grow faster.  I could be wrong.  When the time comes to consider using it, I will most definitely discuss my concerns with our veterinarian.

In the meantime....  after much research, phone calls, emails and discussions with folks who have taken this route...  we have started on CBD Oil.

I ordered it.  I received it.   Then I decided I didn't dare use it.  ….until I looked in her mouth after not looking for several days.  The cancer is red and mean and angry.  Fuck  you, cancer!  CBD oil it is.

My hope using it is that it will help with the pain.  I'm not good at explaining how it works but it has to do with pain receptors being blocked.

I found the tumor because she wasn't eating well and knew something must be wrong, so I was also happy to read it helps with appetite.

CBD Oil does not make her high.  The THC content is very low.  I could write a whole blog on the difference between hemp and marijuana, what is the same, what is different, how it's used.  For a girl who has never even tried a joint, I suddenly know more than I ever thought I'd know about cannabis.  Life ending diagnoses whether for you yourself or one you love causes you to look at things you'd never considered before.

After a little over a week on CBD oil....  she's not hiding like she had been.  She comes out for meals and not only shows up first...

….she stands at the front of the line voicing her distain for how slow the staff is moving in preparation for dinner...

Not only does she eat her own.....

She cleans ALL the bowls for me!

So, as far as comfort and feedings go, we're happy here at the Florentino House.  She's eating well, she's out more.  She purrs, she cuddles, she talks to the birds.  I'm getting my headbutts again.

Life is good.  One day at a time.

Hugs and Purrs,

Arline

THURSDAY THOUGHTS ON TREATMENTS

It's taken me nearly two weeks to come back here.   I truly had good intentions but sadness overwhelmed me.  I cancelled dinner dates with friends, I stayed home.  I sat on the porch a lot and cried.  I'm sorry if over the last couple weeks you bumped into me somewhere and I wasn't "myself".  I haven't been myself for four weeks now.

But... I'm trying to change that.  Not a single one of us is promised tomorrow.  I don't know how many times I've left work saying,  "I left that in the top left drawer if she comes in.  You know... in case I get hit by a bus when I walk out of here..."

Well, I sorta got hit by a bus.  ....and life goes on.

I had planned for my third post to be about options.  For those facing what we are facing and learning what can be done for a cat with oral fibrosarcoma.  I just couldn't bring myself to write it all down over the last couple weeks.

This is the tumor, when it was found.  Needless to say, I was horrified.  I look in her mouth all the time, but I realized that day... only the sides.  I have no idea why I never lifted her front lip.

 Most of the tumor has been removed.  It is already growing back but looks nothing like this.  ....yet..... thankfully.

Option one, which is the most aggressive.  SURGERY.  It would include removing a large part of her upper jaw where the tumor is.  Basically removing part of her face.  No.  Nope.  Nada.  Not doing it.  The horrible thing about this type of cancer is how quickly it usually comes back even after removal.  I could not do that to her.

Option two is radiation.  Daily radiation.  Aside from the fact that I could not bring myself to make her travel to the vet every single day, maybe for the rest of her life, there was another huge factor in this.  Right now, in all of New England there is only ONE facility that does radiation on pets.  ONE.  They have a seven week wait.   I will say, even if it were around the corner, available today, and not a daily trip of three hours in the car, I don't think I would have done it.  (I mentioned in my first post, some won't agree with what I do or don't do).  To me that would be no quality of life for a cat that I've always avoided bringing to the vet because she gets so stressed out.  (and believe me when I say she DOES go to the vet.  Her health record file is bigger than mine).  Also, she has a tumor in her mouth that makes her mouth uncomfortable.  She is already uncomfortable enough.  Do I want to radiate her and make her mouth more painful to buy her a couple  of months?  The oncologist told me no one knows.  She could live six months without treatment, three months with treatment, or vise versa.

Option three:  Chemo.  I considered this one.  Firstly, it's not really a treatment/cure for this type of cancer.   In twenty percent of cases though, it shrinks the tumor for a bit and buys them more time.  He got my attention with that one.  I did more research.  This diagnosis is a death sentence for certain.  I decided against option number three as well.  I felt like a bad human when I made that final decision.  Maybe I wasn't giving her a chance.  Maybe I wasn't doing enough.  Took me a while though to see, I know her better than anyone.  I know what bothers her, what upsets her, what makes her nevous, what makes her tick. We are going to enjoy every day we have left.  No more trips to the vet.  No more staring in her mouth four times a day.    She can eat what she wants, turn her nose up to what she doesn't, eat under the bed.....   so long as she wishes to.  So long as she continues to chase butterflies.

Anyone who finds themselves in our situation will have to make their own decisions.  While there is NOT a lot of information on feline oral fibrosarcoma out there... there is some.  Also, lower jaw may be easier to deal with than upper jaw, giving someone an easier decision to make with radical facial reconstruction to remove the tumor.  A less timid cat may have no problem taking a daily drive.  I only know I had to do in my heart what felt right for her.  Yes, I still doubt myself.  I probably always will.  But, when she runs out to be the first one to eat supper, or is the first out to the catio to watch the birds that makes it a good day.  One I know she's enjoyed.  ....and we carry on.

Hugs and Purrs,

Arline

BE LIKE NOAH

In the last couple weeks Tessi has been avoiding me.  Who can blame her.  I bawl like a baby when she walks in the room..... so she walks out.  I'm trying to be better about that.  I'm trying to be more like Noah.

I can make myself crazy wondering what a cat thinks.  If she knows what's happening to her.  I asked a friend today how to lighten my aura, raise my vibration, make me someone she wants to be close to again.  "Do something that makes you happy." she said.  "Find your happy place."  "Center yourself and find peace."  in other words... BE MORE LIKE NOAH.

He doesn't question, he doesn't judge.  He just walks up and sits his ass down like he always has.

….and she sinks in, and finds her peace.

I'm going to have to work on that.  I think I'm doing a bit better than a few days ago.  Last night I had an epiphany.  No matter how bad things are she MUST feel better than she felt before the bulk of the tumor was removed.  She must be more comfortable.   I need to stop... and let her be.  Let her do what she does best.  Be a cat.

Yes, her tongue is out.  Yes, she still makes me laugh.  She wins!  They both do.

Tomorrow I promise to be more like Noah.

 Hugs and Purrs,
Arline